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Is this a casual thing in most a relationships? Lately i've been hearing about people 'teens' giving blow JoBs, and that it's a common thing. I'm 16 and I want to know how this can be better than having normal sex.
I'm not planning on give blow JoBs. But i want to know if YOU think its better than going the whole way and WHY | I don't think that most people think that it is better than normal sex. Men really enjoy receiving blow j o b s and it is common because a lot of women are willing to give them. It is a way to satisfy your partner, (the guy,) without having to give up your virginity. I think that is why you hear a lot of teenagers saying that it is a common thing.
Even though my boyfriend and I have sex frequently he still wants to receive blow j o b s from me as well. Men just really like blow j o b s. Despite this, if men had to pick between only sex or only blow j o b s for the rest of their life the majority of men would still pick sex.
Personally, I prefer sex to giving blow j o b s. As sex is pleasurable for me as well.
If you mean, "better," as in less slutty than going the whole way than I do think that blow j o b s are, "better," than going the whole way.
I think this because a blow j o b does not involve the woman's private parts as well.
Also, it is impossible to get pregnant from giving a blow j o b which is why I think people are also more willing to do it casually.
It is possible to get STD's from blow j o b s so that should always be taken into consideration.
I think that a blow j o b is a very big step in a relationship and should not be given to someone who you are not romantically involved with.
Hope this helps! | Are more and more young teens becoming sexually active? I'm a 14 year old girl and i haven't had my first kissed yet. But my friends have been eatin out, fingered, and they have given hand jobs and blow jobs. I thought it was kind of weird, but it seems like a lot of people have done this....??answers please! | | well it seems like your friends are a little ahead of there age usually there is the one girl in school that does that too early but not a lot maybe a couple but not a lot of girls your age do that stuff try talking to your friends about it. and remember dont do anything your not sure of and dont do it with anymore your not serious about | What are your outlooks on teens today? I am a teenager and I was just wondering like what you think of guys 12-18.
More are talking dirty, looking at porn, sending naked pictures, naughty videos, making out, fingering each other, giving hand jobs, blow jobs, eating out, etc.
Just what do you feel about this now?
Especially parents! What if your guy is doing this and you have NO absolute idea? | Sadly, the outlook is dismal, and for good reason. Not all guys are like that. Some have self-respect and common sense.
Yep, guys always did stuff like that. Not as much though, not so young, and they certainly didn't give answers like, "it just happened", "it's my body" etc. They have zero appreciation for what their parents give them and are self-centered, spoiled little brats.
There is no shame or responsibility anymore. The rates of STD, pregnancy, and abortions have flown thru the frickin roof and has been since the majority of mothers left the home in the 60's. They screw up a lot and want to get out of it the easy way.
If parents have absolutely no idea their guys would be tempted to do this crap, and didn't talk to them about the consequences, THEY are to blame. But at a certain age, guys are old enough to figrue this crap out themselves. Hmmm.....sex=baby. Duh. Don't play adult games if you're not an adult. | WHAT ARE YOUR NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS? Mine are to try and become a better manipulator so I can successfully manipulate adversaries to go and commit suicide and getting women in the 30's to give me blow jobs. Thats my teen new year!
What are yours? | | Lose weight. I really need to do this! | How old should a girl be to give a ********? and also, it it OK to make out with a guy who I'm not dating (both of us are single)..? and is it normal that he gets a b*ner when i make out with him? and should i let him feel stuff if he wants to (im in my mid teens)
thanks!! | i was only 14 when i gave my first bl0wjob. it definately gave me a really bad rep. we werent dating it was this guy i had a kind of on and off friends with benefits thing for a while. but after it happened the first time the worst part was that about 40 guys asked me the next day. i did it to a different guy two days later and the to two more guys within the next two weeks. this was two years ago and it still drives me crazy. i know i didnt want to but i thought it would make them like me more. it made me really slutty though.
i really recomend that you get into some kind of relationship before you try it or something with a label just so i doesnt make you seem like a slut to your peers. im telling you that it wont make him like you more!!! and you dont want it to make you into a slut.
Yes its normal that he gets hard. if you feel comfortable with letting him feel things then go ahead. but in my opinion, the fact that your asking for advice about it first kinda makes it seem like your not to comfortable with the idea. dont do anything youll regret. and be careful cuz things can get awkward!! | Parents of teens....? And teen girl opinions!? Ok. So I am 14 and my boyfriend of the time was 16. Almost 17. We had been dating for a few weeks. It wasn't really a secret cause we had been hanging out for a long time. We were never alone when we were together. And if we were it was only when we he was taking me home. Or we were going to pick up friends. Then, one day before we left my friends house to go home. We were laying on the couch and she went to the bathroom. We decided to go somewhere and have 'alone time' before I actually went home. So we went to the back of his neighborhood where there are no houses built yet, and we got in the back of his jeep and we did stuff. Now when I say we did 'stuff' I mean basically like foreplay... We didn't have actual sex. Like I gave him a ******** and he fingered me and stuff but we didn't have actual sex. Then we made out for like 10 minutes after and he just help me in his arms then we decided that we should get me home before parents get really suspicious. So, the next day my parents found out about it through a text and I have been grounded since the day after memorial day. so about 4 months now. I have pretty much learned my lesson. So question is, do you think I deserve to be grounded for this long and longer? I haven't gone anywhere except for school and home and my parents got a restraining order against the boy.
Ok, so this question is basically for parent's of teens that are around the age of 14. But I would also like for teen girls that are 14 years or older to answer with their opinion. | | You obviously know you've done wrong. You're 14, suspicious and have a boyfriend that's a bit older then you. If your parent knew about this boyfriend then they had to have some kind of an idea that you would be making out but not as far as oral sex or him fingering you. Maybe you're parent would have been more cool if they found out by you and not through a text message. They did the right thing by grounding but 4 months is a stretch. They're parents so they're going to do what they think is best. I personally think that they should sit down and talk to you instead of putting you on punishment for months long. | Why doesn't my man "feel" anything when we have sex? I've been with my first boyfriend for a couple months now, and we've had sex about 7 times. He gets erections fine, and he does orgasm, but he told me that he hasn't "felt" anything yet. What really worries me is that he had in the past with is ex-girlfriend (he's only had one other sex partner, and I have had 0). We're both horny teens, maybe him more that me, but I just don't get. Why can't he feel anything? He tells me not to worry, and that it's not me it's something that he has to work on, but for me giving is half the fun. I've given him blow jobs and hand jobs and we've tried different positions, but WHY?! Please help! I'll take ANY suggestions!!!!!!!!!!!! | Does he wear condoms? If so, that does tone down the feelings. If he is wearing a thick condom, he won't feel as much. He might have to change condoms to a thinner brand.
Another thing, is he smal? Or, are you big? Meaning, if your vagina isn't tight, then he might not feel anything. Not saying you sleep around, or you are fat, but if you are a big woman, he might not feel you.
Another thing, if you are very wet. You can be really lubricated where he can't feel anything.
I had a woman, she was a litte big, but I would feel her until things got going and she became really aroused and wet. Then I couldn't really feel anything because of the lubrication she had and that was without a condom. Plus, she did have guyren and some women aren't as tight as they were before they had the baby.
Doggie style always works for me. If I am having sex doggie style I will ejaculate faster than I would with any other position. So, you could try that.
If you are really wet, you could stop in the middle, and try to dry himself off, and maybe that will help.
| I feel trapped in my own life? I'm 16.My parents aren't divorced.They've always raised me to be myself and I've never had any real problem with them.My home life is pretty stable and as far as i can tell none of us have any health or mental problems to deal with.
i have friends who I trust and like.I hang out with them.We have fun together.I never feel pressured around them or anything like that.
I get good grades.I'm already a Junior and i'm planning on going to college.Most of my teachers like me.I never get in any real trouble.Never do anything bad.I like to doodle and write in my spare time and I hope to make a career out of it some day.
But even with all this I feel so ******* insecure about myself that I feel like kicking and screaming.I've spent nights crying over it.I just have this constant feeling of being trapped.
I want to go to parties I want to get drunk and high.I want to be a slut and do **** I'll regret.I want to get in trouble I want guys five towns over to know who I am and I want to have people texting me at all hours of the night just because they know me.I want to have a bunch of wild crazy teen age stories to joke about with my friends and the people I'll know when I'm older.I don't care about regret, because everyone else who does it seems to be pretty ******* happy and having the god damn time of their lives.
Meanwhile I can't even get guys interested in being anything more then friends,let alone get them to want to have sex with me.Which sucks because that's all I can ever think about.While everyone else was giving blow jobs at 14 I had to just sit in my room wondering what it was like to kiss a guy.
I can't stand the taste of alcohol and I don't know anyone who can get me drugs,despite the fact that being drunk or high sound pretty fun from every single account I've ever heard.
I never get invited to parties or even know where they are so I can crash them.Not that I could seeing as how I don't have a drivers license so I can't drive anywhere.Not that I even would,because I'm so paranoid of crashing.I can't walk anywhere because where I live is so geographically secluded from everyone else.My parent won't let me drive with anyone else.They're constantly asking who,what,when,where, and why whenever I so much as start testing to much.
People bring up pregnancy and being taken advantage of and having rumors spread about me.Like I haven't thought about it.And I don't care.It's worth the risk if it means getting out of this.
i keep thinking maybe i can do this all in college but it just feels like I'm fooling myself.And even if I did it would just prove how much of a god damn loser I am because i had to wait till college to do it.I want to be a writer but it just feels like some hopeless dream they'll never come true.
I've been "myself" all my life.I've never let anyone pressure me into doing something I didn't want to do.And all it's gotten me is a reputation for being a weirdo.No parties.No sex.No drugs.no life in general.It feels like there some sort of whirlwind is going around in my mind.It feels like i'm missing out on life.Missing out on being a ******* teenager! I feel pathetic and insecure ALL THE GOD DAMN TIME.
What the hell is wrong with me.How do I fix this!!!!! | I guess the big questions are, where do you live? And are you headed for college?
If you live in a smallish town, that might be part of feeling trapped. Other than that, you don't give any reasons for not being able to be as wild as you want, just that you are and you hate it.
However, if you're headed for a college where you'll live in a dorm you'll have plenty of time to enjoy yourself then. I still advise you to be responsible as far as sex goes. If you think you're trapped now, having a guy (or catching AIDS) will rob you of your freedom quickly and permanently. If you want to enjoy being a teenager and a young adult, don't bring it to an abrupt end by having unsafe sex.
Another thing to remember is that in high school EVERYBODY talks big about how wild they are, but very few are actually doing much. You may feel left out, but you're really not. The ones who are actually partying have parents who don't care about what's going on in their lives, and believe me that's much worse than the boredom that's consuming you. | How far should two middle aged teens go sexually? Okay, so, my best friend Allie is with this guy named Alex. They've been together for 2 years, almost 3. In fact, it'll be five years sometime in... January, I think? I'm not sure. She talks about him a lot, so I just know(: Well, like I said, they've been together for a long time. They weren't each others first peck kiss, but they were each others first make out, and I believe first love. Alex has liked her for longer than that, in fact, even as just a guy, he'd call and tell her he loved her every night and he hardly ever dated anyone because he couldn't control his feelings for Allie; he just didn't feel right with anyone else. Allie gets bullied a lot. They say she's not pretty enough, but, I think she's beautiful. Alex doesn't really get made fun of because he's way taller than everyone else, but, he's not the best looking. To Allie though, he's amazingly handsome. =] I'm so jealous of their love; it's.. adorable. They're in love, I know they are. Well, onto the point. Allie and Alex have... made out, and gone farther. It's their first serious relationship for both of them. Alex has gotten up her shirt, and done things to her... yeah. You know what I mean. And Allie's given him a ********. They've kissed each others neck and all that young love stuff. She hasn't let him in her pants though, at least not under any clothes down there. She says she wants to keep some innocence. =] But, besides doing this stuff, they're just... in love. And here are my questions...
1. Is it wrong to be doing these things as a young-middle aged teen?
2. Do you think they're really in love? I can't put every detail of how she feels; although she does tell me, I'm not exactly sure.
3. When will I find this love? Does it just take time?
Sorry so long(:
And I don't know what category this goes under, so, if I get it wrong, sorry(:
Best answer... 10 points..!!
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xoxo,
Kels,! | 1. She's right and should hold on to her innocence for a while longer. Best to wait until late teens/early adult to have sex. But the other stuff is pretty normal teen stuff, it's when you explore yourselves and learn about your bodies, your sexuality and stuff. high school and and college is about experimenting.
2. She may be in "puppy" love, and it's quite possible to turn into more than that, but I don't think it's like a mature love that you get when you're older because, well, they aren't older yet. But teens feel their own versions of love that are intense but usually don't last because you're growing and changing so much.
3. It does just take time. Like I said, you can develop young love in teen years and it can develop into a mature, adult love as you get older. Don't worry about it too much, you've got your whole life ahead of you to be in love, just try to have fun and enjoy your youth and love will happen when you least expect it. :) | Teens: What age were you when you first...? So this for a project for health, I'm supposed to survey a whole bunch of people on the following questions.
When did you first make out?
When did you first have sex?
When did you first give or receive a ********/oral sex?
Do you regret doing any of these at the age you did them?
Are you male or female?
How old are you now?
Thanks (: | When did you first make out? 14
When did you first have sex? 17
When did you first give or receive a ********/oral sex? 15
Do you regret doing any of these at the age you did them? No
Are you male or female? Female
How old are you now? 19 |
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