How to convince my girlfriend to give me a ********? my girlfriend doesn't like ********. so is there any way to make her give me a ******** like porn stars do |
| It sounds like you watch too much porn lol. If she doesn't like giving them, then she doesn't like it. Even if you could MAKE her give you one, you shouldn't. When you're in a relationship, things should be mutual. Have you asked her WHY she doesn't like it? Maybe that might help understand. Maybe she's just not ready, maybe she doesn't like the taste or whatever. Talk to her as opposed to just trying to make her give you one. |
In our faith, Blow jobs,porn,anal sex it dirty..Advice on other ways to spice things up? My husband and I entered into a Christian marriage 2 months ago.
Porn,drinking,smoking,Bjs,Anal sex,sex toys is considered impure in God's eyes.
So has a Christian couple, we don't drink, smoke,party,watch porn,wear lingerie, use toys. I want to have sex with my husband but I always feel dirty...Growing up, I was taught sex was dirty, and I would get in trouble...Fear is what kept both my and my husband pure..Advice? Support? |
Im christian and so is my wife. devoted and born again.
while there are some things that are obvious such as anal. whether your christian or not, that one should be obvious.
the others should be looked at with your heart and mind.
while some things might be looked at as dirty, might not actually be dirty.
I don't suggest swallowing, that's a no no.
and I don't suggest licking the hershey's milky way.
but other than that, I think you will find that the rest is A.O.K with god.
just as long as you realize, that it's not a "must have", but a road to introducing and getting to know one's body in an intimate way.
just keep your hearts and minds clean and follow your love desires, but not the lust desires.
you'll be ok.
remember that satan will try to tell you that "such and such" act is ok, but if you feel in your heart and mind ..backed by the scripture and the entire word of god. that it's not, then don't cause more than likely its wrong wrong wrong.
have fun and god bless! |
Husband gets off w/ porn mag. if I can't make him *** after ********...why? I give my husband head all the time, sometimes I can't get him to ***. He'll go into the bathroom and shut the door and get off w/ a porn mag. I talked 2 him about it last nite, is there something wrong with me or what? He says that he thinks I'll feel pressured to finish the job so he does it himself. HELP! |
Sue Beth,
This seems like such a shame. You're so willing, and he's just a bit uptight. If you tell him how very willing and completely unpressured and how much it is that you desire for him to let loose and *** you might get him to go beyond this little block that he has.
And in the meanwhile, maybe you could invite him to finish off in the room with you as motivation instead of the porn mag. Or maybe if he needs to you could offer to be his page turner... the idea is to communicate to him that you want to be a complete participant in his s e x u a l fulfillment... because that is what a good loving partner is...
BTW, how is your satisfaction? Is he comfortable with keeping you happy? |
How can i make blow jobs more sexy but not in a porn star way? i am not that big a fan of blow jobs but i do them for him once in a while, how can i make it sexy and how do just basically do it good? |
| A key point is provided by 'red' in your answers. Yes, do let him know it is enjoyable for you, and hon it should be for -- at least -- the reason you love/care about him and his pleasures, but also -- I hope for you -- you feel great pleasure in taking him (so to speak) playfully with lips, tongue and fingers, maybe in a teasing fashion so you build his expectations without letting him arrive too soon. Of course, there are ice cubes and peppermint flavoring to make it better, but one aspect is to get it good and wet and simply blow air over it -- as I am told -- the guy feels the cooling effect of the blown air, and maybe that is where the idea of 'blow' jobs came from, less suck and more air. Enjoy. |
My Fiance Watches porn when I don't won't to have sex or give him ********? I'm not sure what to think or what to do. This year has been crazy and I' ve been really depressed. I haven't been in the mood for a while. My Finance of 3 years this March is really sweet and i love him so much but he wants sex all the time and I don't. He was a virgin up until he was 21, then he met me. I was 18 and I've been with a a few guys when i was younger (troubled past). He knows my past and he doesn't care. Anyways, when i don't won't to have sex or when i don't won't to perform oral sex he gets down and then some time or later he will download naked pics on his cell to get off or he will go to live naked web-sits and watch them and get off. I know he loves me and he say's he rather see me but i won't let him take naked pics of me. I believe him but it still bothers me and he knows this too but he feels he has the right to that to get off cuz I'm won't get him off. I feel bad but I'm just don't feel up to it right now. He also always want to go down on me but I don't want him to, even tho it's great and he's great. I'm just not in the mood!!! so the more I'm not in the mood the more pron he watches and it really upsets me.. cuz he is thinking about other women's and wants to do that with them. I can see it.....also he looks at other girls and he FLIRTS a lot but i know that just his way. he is really a shy guy but he wants people to like him.. so he tries hard.......this deeply bother me too.. i hate that he looks and flirts.... he just tells me that hes with me and isn't going anywhere..... what do i do? |
| Break up with him today. If you can't trust him to watch porn when you don't want to do it at this age there is absolutely no future for the two of you together, and if your attitude doesn't change there's not much hope of you ever finding a meaningful and lasting relationship. |
Husband say no to a ********? all the porn he watches is ******** but when i ask why we cant do that he says no |
| You need to be his porn star. Any guyren in the house ? no ? you should be naked 1/2 the time in the house,,, |
Tonight If my husband watches porn and has a hand job i will just blow! What Do i say? i catched my husband going on having a hand job while watching playboy on Sat and Yesturday. I can't stand it. I feel like he cheated on me. Tonight i will fake asleep and wait to see if he does it again after i have sex with him. what should l say? I feel disgusted and mad and etc... Help what do i say or should i tell him this evening? I will block that channel but i am pretty sure once he tries to change to that channel he will ask me for the code,, what should i say? Or if he asks me why i changed it, what should i say? |
No, this is not cheating. Masturbation is completely normal and most men do it sometimes, even with a satisfying sex life. It is not disgusting and not something to get mad about.
If he is doing this after having sex with you, I think you need to ask him if your sex life is fullfilling for him. If you have been together for a long time, maybe it is time to change things up a little.
I would not advise changing the code on the channels, as you are not his parent and you shouldn't act like it. Instead act like a concerned and loving partner and find out what your husband needs. |
Serious question - Do you have blow-jobs in your sex life? Thanks for reading. This is a serious question. I heard that in real life girls don't give blowjobs or that it is very hard to convince them to do it. Is this true? Do you have blowjobs in your sex life and how long does it happen? Obviously in porn, it gives the wrong impression and a blow jobs lasts ages and is expected.
I also heard that after marriage, blow-- job disappears. Is this also true? |
Yes, but not as often as you might expect. When me and my boyfriend first got together, on an average day we would have sex twice and I would give him one ********. Now we've been together a couple of years, we rarely have sex more than once a day, and I give him a ******** about once a week.
A couple of my married friends have said that they haven't given a ******** for over a year though!! |
How do i give a satisfying ********? i need to know how to do it properly before i do it and i want help from experienced people instead of looking at porn to find out how.... |
| It is a lot like bicycling - practice makes perfect. Did you ever ask for elaborate instructions before getting on a bicycle? Even if the instructions were "good" , that does not mean that it woeks for your partner. If your partner continues to listen to his iPod, watch TV and talk on his cell while you are doing it, you may need to improve. |
In reality do people finish sex like in porn clips, by ejaculating in the girl's face/mouth? I've never felt comfortable doing it myself. Mainly because I don't think it's what a girl would want. But I've only had sex a handful of times.
I could imagine it would be acceptable to end off with a ******** and ejaculate in the mouth. But over the face? Surely that happens less in reality than what porn clips would have us believe?
I want your opinions. Thanks! |
| In the mouth with her swallowing is most popular. |